Stop being jantan bitch!

One fine afternoon, when the weather is HOT and sunny, she nudged me for a chat...

She said: elloo awak! tolong jgn post blog yg mushy-mushy, mentel-mentel lagii...meluat siakk!

Aku replied: Nie aku nyer blog ke, kao punyer blog??

She said: Tak malu ke kalo org baca...?

Aku replied: Korang jugak yg sibuk nak tahu private life aku perr...kaypoh!

She said: we know it too much, oready

Aku replied: So, nak suruh aku tukar format lah?

She said: we like the 'old' you...but not abt being 'bitchy'!

Aku replied: Aku tak 'bitch' siakk...org yg 'bitch' dgn aku...Layannnnnnnn...

She said: Mana punyer hensem siakk...hahaha!

Aku replied: dah banyak org feedback kat aku. Aku makin di benci ramai siol! Kao pon dah benci aku skrg!

She said: Kao peh twitter pon dah sounds bitchy oready! jangkit mentel kao!

Aku replied: huhu...tapi kao tahu kan aku nie pemalu lagik sopan!?

She said: Yes, we know who u are. U are nothing like dat. So change back. plss...

Aku replied: Tapi rating blog aku naik ahh kalo aku bitch...

She said: WE WANT 'YOU' BACK! And stop posting citer 'mushy-mushy' here...boring siakk aku baca.

Aku replied: Boring ke jerlus? ehehehee....

She said: Kalo aku ader bf mcm kao, dah lama potong dia nyer 'nunu' tuu...

Aku replied: Kalo aku tak bitch, will you still come and visit my blog?

She said: Of course lahh...u don hv to bitch. Kater nak pindah blog? Belachan kental ahh...

Aku replied: Ok...ramai dah feedback. I think my privacy dah over exposed. I'll stop bitching here.

She said: Good for u. But don stop melayan aku ahhh...u can still bitch with me privately. If not my life wud be boringgggggg...

Aku replied: Ohhh....gatal ehh! kao pon sama lahhh...

She said: Me alone. But don tell the whole world..teeeheeeheee! :p

Aku replied: Tak paham lah korang pompan nie. Kekadang bobal contradicting! Kao nak aku bitch ke tak nak?

She said: You can do watever u like...but don tell the whole world lahh. Tak malu ke??

Aku replied: Wat u think?

She said: C'mon lah bro. U r not this type one. Keep private things private. I think org dah tahu saper belachan tumbuk nie..

Aku replied: Huh?? tahu ke?

She said: Identitiy kao dah terover exposed, remember? Tak serik kah?

Aku replied: Thrilling siakkk that time...nasib baik aku tak penampar muka dia!

She said: shud learn ur lesson. U r really nice. But circumstances will put u otherwise.

Aku replied: Awwww............so touched! Aku suka kao...*hugs*

She said: Ahhh..dah nak start bitching balik lah nieee...tapi best ahh kena hug! kehehehe

Aku replied: Mentel! Mentel!

She said: shuddup..so ko pikir lah sendiri ek?

Aku replied: Yes i will, DEAR! I sayang u...

She said: are u gonno post this onto ur blog??

Aku replied: Yes lah..org suka baca benda sensasi mcm nie...hehe.

She said: OMG!!!! please don't! But..if u must, don put my name...pleassseeeeee

Aku replied: Takot org tahu kao pon suka bitch ngan aku eh? hahahah...

She said: Kao suka layan perr...heheh! Kao gerek kan..

Aku replied: I know wat to do ahh..no worries.

She said: Soory lah kalo aku comment banyak. Pasal blog kao nie takde comment box. Kalo ader musti dah flooded kena kutuk! hahaha..

Aku replied: Aku buat blog utk hilang kan rasa boring jer. Aku rasa org suka baca benda sensasi jer. Ok lah. Rating aku naik giler siott! Thx for the advice.

She said: No prob. we just don want others to hv negative tots abt u. U are not like this in real life, kan?

Aku replied: This things happened in virtual life jerr...so not too worry. Aku masih berpijak dibumi yg nyata.

She said: Real life sux. But still....

Aku replied: dah..jgn nak elaborate. Nanti kao nangis, aku pon nangis jugak...

She said: Thks zue. :)

Aku replied: Kalo ader aper2 msg aku ajer ahh. nanti ader masa kiter bobal panjang.

She said: You see...tu pasal aku suka kao. Dulu aku betol2 nak jadi kao nyer gf. Tapi kao tak sudi..

Aku replied: Dah...jgn nak mentel kat sini. Podahhh..*tendang bontot kao*

She said: Tata..aku nak sambung kejer. Kalo chat dgn kao, bole merepek panjang..sumer rahsia bole terbongkar...ermm..takde aper2 ahh. Lain kali aku story ngan kao.

Aku replied: Tahu Takpe. selamat menjalan kan tugas harian. Aku nak melayan org lain lakk..

She said: Eeeiii...tak serik eh. Nanti kao hampa kan hati dia lagi..nanti dia dot..dot...dot

Aku replied: Aku tau mana limit ahh.

She said: Aku logout. Bye!

Aku replied: Kalo rindu sebut jer nama ku, babeh

She said: Stop being jantan bitch! Ko tak sajak langsung okey!!

[Logout]

ps: She was my schoolmate. We were once a couple until I ditched her. Why I ditched her? Because she refused to let me copy her home work. Puppy love is always exciting! :)

Semalam ku bermimpi...

Semalam aku balik lambat. Terlampao penat sampai tak sempat nak berendam dalam jacuzzi (lupa nak mandi dahhh).

Aku bukak computer, chk emails, recharged laptop, recharged battery camera, on radio...terus aku tertido.

Sedang aku tidor, tetibakan aku bole termimpi. Aku termimpi aku buat blog baru. Cantik skali blog aku tuu. Tetiba ajer aku terbangun. Terus aku dapat idea mcm mana nak cantik kan blog aku. Aku happy skali...hehe!

Jam dah pukol 9 pagi. Baru aku teringat aku blom mandi dari semalam.

ps : Hari nie aku balik lambat lagi...aku nak tengok citer hostess kena kidnap! huhu...

EOT *Extension Of Time*

Blog ini akan dilanjutkan until further notice.

Tu hari, aku ader ura-ura nak tamatkan blogsite nie. Lagipon aku dah standby blogsite yang baru.

Tapi ramai kawan-kawan chatters yg beri feedback, tak yah ler shutdown Belacahan Tumbuk. Susah mereka nak hunt down blog baru aku nanti. Lagipon dia org happy baca cerita blog aku kat sini...

Lagipon, aku dpt ramai kawan baru kat sini lah. So ok ler, demi pembaca-pembaca setia blog aku, siri Belachan Tumbuk akan dilanjutkan hingga ke satu masa yg tertentu. (Aku pon tak tahu sampai biler)

Terimakasih kerana telah memberi sokongan selama ini.

Bak kata pepatah aku, walopon bau belachan itu busyuk, tapi ramai yang masih sukakan nya...

Terimakasih daun keladi, senang-senang datang lagi, okeyyy :-)

Peace.

Pergghhh...Blog politik aku kena comment!

Dah lama aku tak bawak sorotan politik. Sajer jer nak dok tunggu dan lihat. Lagi pon perubahan sekrang semakin berkecamuk.

Tengok jer aper dah jadi kat Perak tuu. Nak ketawa salah, nak bernangis pon salah. Skarang Sultan dah murka dgn rakyat. Sekali dia sumpah jadi esbok ke, doraemon ke, upin ke, ipin ke...baru padan muka...haha!

Semalam ader ler manusia nie tulis komen kat salah satu artikel politik aku. Hmm...kalo nak difikirkan, betol jugak ler dgn aper terjadi sekarang. Walopon dia tak kater parti mana dia sokong, tapi aku dah agak dari parti mana dia nie, dari segi komentar dia tu.

Sorotan dari blog aku lagi satu:

Malaysia's political scene : Anwar says..
by mohdzuraini @ Sunday, Aug. 26, 2007 – 01:55:45

I'm diverting into politics today. This may not be my usual scope for blogging, but then, certain political issues that arise, do have some prominent effect in our day to day life.

I have always been very fascinated with Mr Anwar's brand of politic since his days in power and have always have great interest insight for his fiery approach to matters concerning the world and particularly, Malaysia.

The political landscape maybe different if he was to be the Premier back then. But I salute the man for he has addressed genuine facts at the political stage to set people thinking on the accounts where the ruling party is denying it.....

Read more >> Click here

Komentar yang aku terima semalam...

Malaysia Classifieds (Visitor)
http://www.iklanmalaysia.net
Saturday, Feb. 14, 2009 @ 12:10:34

Humans always find better, creative and cunning ways to hurt others and for selfish gains that over-rides the purpose of greater good (sake of the whole). Humans need to learn that we can never bring wealth to our tomb. What are we leaving behind that can be beneficial to our next generation? Hatred, resentment, greed?

We have once heard the city flooded with books and business seminars that touch on re-engineering our corporate and workforce. Ultimately, the message should be re-engineering ourselves with good universal values. Then only we have hope in our next generation of leaders. If the society or politics keep on promoting racial based agendas, there will never be any common ground for coming together for mutual prosperity.

The world seriously needs to re-engineer itself with leaders embedded with peace values.

Kasi aku sedikit masa lagi utk aku kembali buat rumusan. Yg lebih thrilling skrg, Perak nak buat by-election kecil. So, kiter tunggu dan lihat.

Belachan Tumbuk Setahun Jagung

Happy Birthday to you...
Happy Birthday to you...

Happy Birthday to my Belachan Tumbukkkk

Happy Birthday to youuuuu.....

Wahhh....dah 1 tahun blogsite aku nie....Lalalalalaaa...!!!

Time aku create blog nie dulu, masa tuu aku tgh frust tonggeng. Tgh tertonggeng atas katil pon...hahaha! Kepala pening pasal ader lerr tuu...mana bole bilang korang :D

Dat tyme pasal aku rasa nak bukak chapter baru dlm idop aku. Sebenarnya aku memang sayang nak tinggalkan CENCALOK. But life has to go on, brudder. No point lingering in the past. So terbit ler Belachan Tumbuk sebagai penggantinya.

But...ader orang tu kater, dia lebih suka baca CENCALOK. Bagiku samer jerr. Aper yg aku merepek kat sini sumer adalah secara spontan. Ramai kasi aku feedback. Dorang suka aku buat blog merepek mcm nie..hahaha! Merepek ahh korang nie :D

Actually, aku mmg ader ura-ura nak tamatkan siri Belachan Tumbuk...but...haizz. Nanti ler aku fikirkan camna keadaan.

So, buat masa skrg try to njoy ler aper yg aku karang kat sini. Nanti kalo dah takde, jgn rindu-rinduan ekk...

ps: Also to Faisall, Ray Vees, Suhaily, Kristina, Daing Hashim, Is-One, Kelly yang juga sama-sama menyambut hari ulang tahun, semoga diberkati hidup selalu. :-)

Gambar curik time rewang bawah blok lerr...

Message (1)

Rizan: amciam ini posing album yg ke berapa ni? 3 ke 2? hehehe!!

Aku reply: Ini cover album dangdut terbaru aku - "Hati retak, tampal plaster". hahaha...ini pose time rewang kat bawah blok ler tuu hari... :D

Message (2)

Tutt...Tutt...Handphone aku kuar munyik lagi.....

Nisha: Zue! u l0ok awesome in d fb profile pic. haha! k k..i mentel..:-P

Aku reply: Haha tat gambar was taken kat bawah blok time rewang!

Nisha: Hahha! mcm m0del sey..feewit!i nk curik bole?:-D

Errrr...aku tak tahu aper nak jawab!! :D

ps : To paparazzi yg curik snap gambar nie - Lain kali beritahu dulu sblm amik gambar! So aku bole pose dgn lebih HOT lagik! hahahaha...

....??

Ader orang beri aku comment

Aku check email box aku tadi skali ader orang kasi comment.

Name : Mr X

Comment: Saya terbaca blog awak : http://belachantumbuk.blogspot.com/2008/11/bangkok-airport-meletop.html

Betul sangat apa awk cakap kan tu. Saya memang nak pegi bangkok. Tapi, hotel semua fully booking. Hotel murah pon dah habis. Walaupun holiday season, tapi selalunya tak mcm ni.

Awak ni kejer sebagai polis jenayah ke?

Aku reply: Terimakasih Mr X kerana sudi melayari ke laman blog saya yang tak seberapa ni. Saya bukan polis, saya bukan doktor, saya bukan lawyer, saya bukan majistrate.

Saya ni kejer biasa jer. Kais pagi, makan pagi. Kais petang, tapi makan besok pagi jugak. Kekadang kais-kais pon tak dapat makan langsung. :(

Saya cuma kongsi aper yg saya tahu jer. Hanya utk keselamatan manusia sejagat!

Jumpa lagi ye.

Renungan Ramadan

Salam sejahtera kepada semua yg sedang menjalani ibadah puasa.

Ketika melungsuri internet tadi, terjumpa pula satu blogsite yg telah diselenggarakan oleh seorang mualaf berasal dari Amerika mengenai Ramadan.

Aku rasa ianya baik untuk dikongsi sebagai satu panduan dan peringatan keatas kita semua.

Semoga si penulis ini diberkati Allah SWT keatas usaha murni beliau.

Jazakallahu Khairan.

Common Mistakes Made During Ramadan
by Umm Yusuff

Most Muslims who fast Ramadan focus on the benefits and rewards of it. But in doing so, we often make mistakes that instead of adding to our experience actually detract from it. Mistakes that can make us commercialize Ramadan as so many other religions have commercialized their sacred days. Insh’Allah the following serves as a reminder to myself first and to all Muslims. May Allah help us to spend our time wisely this Ramadan and help us to avoid these mistakes. ameen

Taking Ramadaan as a ritual

For many of us Ramadaan has lost its spirituality and has become more of a ritual than a form of Ibaadah. We fast from morning to night like a zombie just because everyone around us is fasting too. We forget that its a time to purify our hearts and our souls from all evil….we forget to make dua, forget to beseech Allaah to forgive us and ask Him to save us from the Fire. Sure we stay away from food and drink but that’s about all.

Although the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:
“Jibreel said to me, ‘May Allaah rub his nose in the dust, that person to who Ramadaan comes and his sins are not forgiven,’ and I said, ‘Ameen’. Then he said, ‘May Allaah rub his nose in the dust, that person who lives to see his parents grow old, one or both of them, but he does not enter Paradise (by not serving them) and I said, ‘Ameen’. Then he said, ‘May Allaah rub his nose in the dust, that person in whose presence you are mentioned and he does not send blessings upon you,’ and I said, ‘Ameen.’” (Tirmidhi, Ahmad, others. Saheeh by al-Albaani)

Too much stress on food and drink

For some people, the entire month of Ramadaan revolves around food. They spend the ENTIRE day planning, cooking, shopping and thinking about only food, instead of concentrating on Salaah, Quraan and other acts of worship. All they can think of is FOOD. So much so that they turn the month of ‘fasting’ into the month of ‘feasting’. Come Iftaar time, their table is a sight to see, with the multitudes and varieties of food, sweets and drinks. They are missing the very purpose of fasting, and thus, increase in their greed and desires instead of learning to control them. It is also a kind of waste & extravagance.

“…..and eat and drink but waste not by extravagance, certainly He (Allaah) likes not Al-Musrifoon (those who waste by extravagance) ” [al-Araaf :31]

Spending all day cooking

Some of the sisters (either by their own choice or forced by their husbands) are cooking ALL day and ALL night, so that by the end of the day, they are too tired to even pray Ishaa, let alone pray Taraweeh or Tahajjud or even read Quraan. This is the month of mercy and forgiveness. So turn off that stove and turn on your Imaan!

Eating too much

Some people stuff themselves at Suhoor until they are ready to burst, because they think this is the way to not feel hungry during the day and some people eat at Iftaar, like there is no tomorrow, trying to ‘make up for the food missed.’ However, this is completely against the Sunnah. Moderation is the key to everything.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “The son of Adam does not fill any vessel worse than his stomach; for the son of Adam a few mouthfuls are sufficient to keep his back straight. If you must fill it, then one-third for food, one-third for drink and one-third for air.” (Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah. saheeh by al-Albaani).

Too much food distracts a person from many deeds of obedience and worship, makes him lazy and also makes the heart heedless.
It was said to Imam Ahmad: Does a man find any softness and humility in his heart when he is full? He said, I do not think so.

Sleeping all day

Some people spend their entire day (or a major part of it) ’sleeping away their fast’. Is this what is really required of us during this noble month? These people also are missing the purpose of fasting and are slaves to their desires of comfort and ease. They cannot ‘bear’ to be awake and face a little hunger or exert a little self-control. For a fasting person to spend most of the day asleep is nothing but, negligence on his part.

Wasting time

The month of Ramadaan is a precious, precious time, so much so that Allaah calls this month “Ayyamum Ma’doodaat” (A fixed number of days). Before we know it, this month of mercy and forgiveness will be over. We should try and spend every moment possible in the worship of Allaah so that we can make the most of this blessing. However, there are some of us who waste away their day playing video games, or worse still, watching TV, movies or even listening to music. Subhaan Allaah! Trying to obey Allaah by DISOBEYING him!

Fasting but not giving up evil

Some of us fast but do not give up lying, cursing, fighting, backbiting, etc. and some of us fast but do not give up cheating, stealing, dealing in haraam, buying lotto tickets, selling alcohol, fornication, etc. and all kinds of impermissible things without realizing that the purpose of fasting is to not stay away from food and drink; rather the aim behind it is to fear Allaah.

“O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may become Al-Muttaqoon (the pious)” [al-Baqarah 2:183]

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Whoever does not give up false speech and acting upon it, and ignorance, Allaah has no need of him giving up his food and drink.” (Bukhaari)

Smoking

Smoking is forbidden in Islam whether during Ramadaan or outside of it, as it is one of al-Khabaa’ith (evil things). And this includes ALL kinds of ’smoking material’ eg.cigars, cigarettes, pipes,’Sheesha’ , hookah etc.
“he allows them as lawful At Tayyibaat (all good and lawful things), and prohibits them as unlawful Al Khabaa’ith (all evil and unlawful things) [al-A'raaf :157]

It is harmful, not only to the one smoking, but also to the ones around him. It is also a means of wasting ones wealth. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “There should be no harming or reciprocating harm.”
This is especially true during fasting and it invalidates the fast. (Fatwa -Ibn ‘Uthaymeen)

Skipping Suhoor

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Eat suhoor for in suhoor there is blessing.”(Bukhaari, Muslim).
And he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “The thing that differentiates between our fasting and the fasting of the People of the Book is eating suhoor.” (Muslim)

Stopping Suhoor at ‘Imsaak’

Some people stop eating Suhoor 10-15 minutes earlier than the time of Fajr to observe ‘Imsaak’.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said: This is a kind of bidah (innovation) which has no basis in the Sunnah. Rather the Sunnah is to do the opposite. Allaah allows us to eat until dawn: “and eat and drink until the white thread (light) of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread (darkness of night)” [al-Baqarah 2:187]

And the Prophet (pbuh) said: “….eat and drink until you hear the adhaan of Ibn Umm Maktoom, for he does not give the adhaan until dawn comes.”

This ‘imsaak’ which some of the people do is an addition to what Allaah has prescribed, so it is false. It is a kind of extremism in religion, and the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:
”Those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed.” (Muslim)

Not fasting if they missed Suhoor

Some people are too scared to fast if they miss Suhoor. However, this is a kind of cowardice and love of ease. What is the big deal if you missed a few morsels of food? It’s not like you will die. Remember, obedience to Allaah overcomes everything.

Saying the intention to fast ‘out loud’ or saying a specific dua to start fasting

The intention is an action of the heart. We should resolve in our heart that we are going to fast tomorrow. That is all we need. It is not prescribed by the Shari’ah for us to say out loud, “I intend to fast”, “I will fast tomorrow” or other phrases that have been innovated by some people. Also, there is no specific dua to be recited at the time of starting the fast in the correct Sunnah. Whatever ‘dua’ you may see on some papers or Ramadaan calendars, etc. is a Bid’ah.

Delaying breaking fast

Some people wait until the adhaan finishes or even several minutes after that, just to be ‘on the safe side’. However, the Sunnah is to hasten to break the fast, which means breaking fast whenever the adhaan starts, right after the sun has set. Aa’ishah (RA) said: This is what the Messenger of Allaah (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) used to do. (Muslim)

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “The people will continue to do well so long as they hasten to break the fast.” (Bukhaari, Muslim)

Determine to the best of your ability, the accuracy of your clock, calendar, etc. and then have tawakkul on Allaah and break your fast exactly on time.

Eating continuously until the time for Maghrib is up

Some people put so much food in their plates when breaking their fast and continue eating, enjoying dessert, drinking tea, etc., until they miss Maghrib. That is obviously not right. The Sunnah of the Prophet (pbuh) was that once he broke his fast with some dates, them he would hasten to the prayer. Once you are done with the prayer, you can always go back and eat some more if you wish.

Missing the golden chance of having your Dua accepted

The prayer of the fasting person is guaranteed to be accepted at the time of breaking fast.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Three prayers are not rejected: the prayer of a father, the prayer of a fasting person, and the prayer of a traveler.” (al-Bayhaqi, saheeh by al-Albaani).

Instead of sitting down and making Dua at this precious time, some people forego this beautiful chance, and are too busy frying samosas, talking, setting the food, filling their plates and glasses, etc. Think about it….Is food more important than the chance to have your sins forgiven or the fulfillment of your Duas.

Fasting but not praying

The fasting of one who does not pray WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED. This is because not praying constitutes kufr as the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Between a man and shirk and kufr there stands his giving up prayer.” (Muslim)

In fact, NONE of his good deeds will be accepted; rather, they are all annulled.
“Whoever does not pray ‘Asr, his good deeds will be annulled.” (Bukhaari)

Fasting and not wearing Hijaab

Not wearing the Hijaab is a major sin as it is obligatory for Muslim women. (See Surah Nur, Surah Ahzaab). So fasting and not wearing hijaab certainly takes away enormously from the rewards of fasting, even if does not invalidate it.

Not fasting because of exams or work

Exams or work is NOT one of the excuses allowed by the Shariah to not fast. You can do your studying and revision at night if it is too hard to do that during the day. Also remember that pleasing and obeying Allaah is much more important than ‘good grades’. Besides, if you will fulfil your obligation to fast, even if you have to study, Allaah will make it easy for you and help you in everything you do.
“Whosoever fears Allah, He will appoint for him a way out and provide for him from where he does not expect, Allah is Sufficient for whosoever puts his trust in Him.” (Surah at-Talaaq 2-3)

Mixing fasting and dieting

DO NOT make the mistake of fasting with the intention to diet. That is one of the biggest mistakes some of us make (esp. sisters). Fasting is an act of worship and can only be for the sake of Allah alone. Otherwise, mixing it with the intention of dieting may become a form of (minor) Shirk.

Fighting over the number of Rakaah of Taraweeh

There is no specific number of rak’ahs for Taraweeh prayer, rather it is permissible to do a little or a lot. Both 8 and 20 are okay. Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said: “No one should be denounced for praying eleven or twenty-three (raka’ah), because the matter is broader in scope than that, praise be to Allaah.”

Praying ONLY on the night of the 27th

Some people pray ONLY on the 27th to seek Lailat ul-Qadr, neglecting all other odd nights, although the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “Seek Lailat ul-Qadr among the odd numbered nights of the last ten nights of Ramadaan.” (Bukhaari, Muslim).

Wasting the last part of Ramadaan preparing for Eid

Some people waste the entire last 10 days of Ramadaan preparing for Eid, shopping and frequenting malls, etc. neglecting Ibadah and Lailatul Qadr. although, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) used to strive the hardest during the last ten days of Ramadaan in worship (Ahmad, Muslim) and not in shopping. Buy whatever you need for Eid before Ramadaan so that you can utilize the time in Ramadaan to the max.
Aa’ishah (RA) said: “When the (last) ten nights began, the Messenger of Allaah (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam)) would tighten his waist-wrapper (i.e., strive hard in worship or refrain from intimacy with his wives), stay awake at night and wake his family.” (Bukhaari and Muslim).

Iftaar parties

Although inviting each other for breaking fast is something good and encouraged, some people go to extremes with lavish ‘Iftaar parties’ with all sorts of disobedience to Allaah, from flirting, mixing of the sexes and hijaab-less women, to show-off and extravagance, to heedlessness to Salaah, and Taraweeh to even music and dancing.

Source :
http://southernmuslimah.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/common-mistakes-made-during-ramadan/

Bicara hati...

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“Engkau adalah teman jiwaku yang hilang, setengah diriku yang dipisahkan saat ditetapkan [Kahlil Gibran]”

“When you are down to nothing, God is up to something.”

“You come to love not by finding the perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly [Keen]”

Suddenly somehow I feel gifted. I feel blessed by finding him now into my life. Somehow I found out that he’s far from the word “perfection”. But since I and he were united, he still remains imperfect, but the love, the relationship, the affection, the trustworthiness and the faith we both have to then we combined are amazingly be seen as a fully perfected form of reality. As we complete each other, learn to grow tolerances inside us and to throw egos that we’re having. It’s not as easy as saying it. It takes much sacrificing to do such things, but I know I have faith in him. I know that I believe him and I know that I can rely on him. I will cover his “holes” and so does him to mine. That’s supposed of what partners are for, isn’t it?

After the party was done, we sat together in the lobby. Then I said,

“This party is super cool…”, he agreed me, and then he continued,

“I don’t know whether I could make this kind of party in the future for you.”

“What for, I don’t need the package. I need the essence.”

No, Love… I need no luxury. I need the imperfect you, so the imperfect me could tick her heart with yours perfectly. Remember what Gibran said,

“Love is like one soul trapped in two bodies.”

And he didn’t mention about perfection, coz we don’t need that. Perfection will only blunting our sensitivities and senses.

So keep being imperfect Love and I will still know the reason why I should stay beside you.

End quote.

Perrgghhh...Ayat dia POWER dahhh....

Tetapi, sama ada dengan sedar atau tidak, ader benar jugak kekata itu...hmmm..

To Iwed: No, I don't think it's a brainwaste at all. I think it's beautiful :-)

Is it just a mere coincident OR...

I was holding up the morning paper earlier today and spotted this article which relates to something which I had written in my blog few weeks ago. - Dreaming of being a rock drummer..

Read full article here.

ps: hmm...I wonder if my blogs have inspired him to write this. Heh!

Pindah Rumah Baru...

Sila masok...sila masok. Jgn malu-malu. Buat ler macam umah sendiri...

Umah nie kecik jek. Takda perabot yg cantik-cantik. Setakat tikar mengkuang dan kopi bujang jek...ahhh sila lah minum dulu.

Ramai tanyer tu hari, kenapa aku pindah umah? Alaahh..cuma nak tukar angin jek. Sesekali dapat udara baru kan bagus untuk kesihatan.

So, mungkin ader perubahan kepada blog aku yg seterusnya? Mungkin ader ler sikit benda yg berubah. Itu pon mengikut selera, keadaan dan masa. Tapi yg tetap tidak akan berubah ialah blog ini akan dikendalikan secara santai jek.

Walaobagaimana pon, aku mengucapkan syabas kepada kenalan-kenalan yg telah terjumpa blogsite baru aku ini.

Kepada mereka yg baru saja mengenali blog aku, salam perkenalan dan semoga terhibur dgn segala cerita-cerita yg akan aku lampirkan pada masa ke semasa.

Seperti blog2 yg lalu, aku harap blog ini dapat memberi manfaat kepada kiter semua...

Selamat Datang dan semoga terhibur!

ps: All comments are welcome. Please direct comments to rising_dragon@rock.com