Showing posts with label friendships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendships. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

All about blogging...

Aku tersengeh-sengeh biler terbaca blog dia. Saper ler sangka ader jugak peminat yang setia membaca setiap blog yang aku tulis nie...peewiittt!

Aku mengenali Sharina pada tahun 2007. Ketika itu aku masih mengendalikan siri blog CENCALOK. Since then, she has been an avid reader of my blogs. One sweet day, she introduced herself at skype, and that was how this beautiful friendship started. The rest is history....

I am deeply flattered to know she enjoys reading what I have shared. What truly moves me, it actually motivated her to start a blog of her own. And she did!

It was that sense of fulfillment, when you realised something that you did, has brought inspiration to someone, in your lifetime. After that, nothing else really matters.

Equally, she has shared me many things in life thru her words of wisdom.

'Living With Imperfections' - It's her blog title that first strucked me awe. She explained that we are all imperfect. Therefore, there's nothing we could change, but to live and make the best out of it. Then recently, that very beautiful phrase is use to describe one TV advertisement, promoting family values and love. As far as I am concerned, the whole thing did not come from Yasmin Ahmad. It came to me first from Sharina, few years back.

'Knowing too much kills a relationship' - It was when she shared her plight and her love experience. How it started and how it ended. There are reasons why certain things are forbidden from your knowings. There are reasons why some things are to be left unsaid. There are reasons why things meant to be kept as secrets. Because, all you know, these are things that will only hurt and kill a beautiful relationship.

Above all, she is genuinely down-to-earth and a great 'philosopher'. A very mature and sensible person to converse with. A great listener and a wonderful chatting buddy. We have shared many great topics together and we certainly have learnt a lot thru each other. Honestly, she's a genius that taunted me with many thought provoking questions.

Appreciate all your comments and feedbacks. I certainly hope this friendship never ends.

Thank you, Sharina!

ps: You can be a great philosopher. Keep on blogging, because someone might get inspired by you.

Monday, May 25, 2009

I sacrificed myself, to save my friends

"A voodoo doll must find the courage to save his friends from being pinned to death..."



A cute animation produced for NFB Cannes Short Film, tells us a simple friendship story.

Source : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ePWK0qfisE

ps: Search within yourself. Sometimes, you will find a familliar message too..

Saturday, May 23, 2009

*RejuveNation

Ahhh...at last things are going back to norm just like the good ol' days and it feels great! And I hope it stays that way...

Glasses of teh tariks, nasi sambal gorengs, gerek lepak kakis and dozens of laughters, really rejuvenates after a week of agonies..yeahh baybehh!

From 7pm to 10.30pm with 3 rounds of teh tarik, I think that has to be the longest teh tarik session we've ever had since...errmm...I've forgotten ahh! But yes, it has been wayy too long to remember!

Many matters discussed, great conversations had, ideas exchanged, taboo topics brought up, funny jokes shared and quality time spent!

Really enjoyed the company. Welcome to C.o.G guys!

So what next? Ahh...Rizan, kao gie plan cepat!

ps: psst...me tak gie clubbing ahh. Bhai sarbat kirim salam kat you! And I tot I saw you there. She's not you, right??

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Just before the last...


F.R.I.E.N.D.S.


ps: It has been a great frienship adventure. Thank you, Superfwens. Will miss you all. :(

Monday, May 04, 2009

Tagged


No. I am not confortable when friends tagged their friends. We are not doing MLM (multi-level-marketing) and we are not marketing our friends like products.

Am I being selfish? No. There are reasons for everything. I have gone thru such phases in life and it's doing more bad than good.

  1. Circle of friends become bigger.
  2. It will be more difficult to control.
  3. It's not easy pleasing everyone in a large group.
  4. It's difficult to adjust to the same frequency to suit each individual.
  5. Large group may splits into sub-groups, sub-cultures, cults...bla..bla..bla..hence there will be less cohesion.
  6. Group relationships will become tense.
  7. This is all about honouring friendship, not about how many friends you are able to recruit.
  8. There are feelings to care. There are trusts to honour.
  9. Smaller groups doesn't means less fun. Bigger groups have bigger problems.
  10. Real friends are like treasures. They are not like Facebook. When you don't like them, you can delete them from your friend's list.

Sit back and ponder. Trust me. It will do you good.